Once a fuck boy, always a fuck boy. - Mother Teresa.
A Fuck Boy is a guy that does not respect women, won't commit, plays stupid games, lies a lot and will literally come into your life with the sole purpose of fucking shit up. He's into relationships that are strictly sexual and will lead you on until you've almost lost your mind. Unfortunately, they're not always easy to spot right away because they can be charming. With a few helpful tips of spotting a fuck boy, our hope is that you'll start making plans to get rid of that clown sooner than later.
HE NEVER INITIATES ANYTHING
You're probably the first to contact him all of the time. You probably go days without hearing from him and his excuse is always that "I'm busy."
YOU DON'T KNOW HIS FAMILY OR FRIENDS
You've invested some time and you don't know any of his friends and family. You keep inquiring when you will meet the people who mean the most to him and he's full of lame excuses.
HE LIES ABOUT EVERYTHING
In fact, as he's lying, he will swear on his mother, cross his heart with hopes to die and may even cry to make it believable. You know the story doesn't add up.
HE'S ATTACHED TO HIS PHONE
Unless you count societies addiction to technology, if he can't go empty the trash without taking his phone or move a few feet without making sure his phone is glued to his hand, somethings up. If he freaks out because you have his phone, leave him alone.
ALWAYS OUT WITH THE BOYS
He takes great care to plan quality time and trips with his boys but will not take you out. Sigh.
OVER THE TOP FLIRTY
The conversations seem to never get deep so he leads you down the rabbit hole with compliments and useless talk. Always flirting with no substance to the conversation is a sign that he may just be having fun and that's it.
HE SAYS, "I WANT TO TAKE IT SLOW."
He wants to take it slow all while he's trying to move fast as hell in the sex department. He wants to do boyfriend things without the label of being your boyfriend. Ha!
HE HAS A THING FOR OTHER WOMEN
He's hitting like on all the photos of barely dressed women and possibly sharing them too. He tells you its just social media and its not cheating. His eyes are always on some other woman while he's with you.
WOMEN START CALLING YOUR PHONE
This happened to me. I was talking to a new guy and this mysterious woman called and texted me from his phone at 2 am to say, " Stop talking to my man." I later found out that he had three children with a baby on the way after he told me he was childless. Well, that was cancelled.
HE LIES ABOUT HAVING CHILDREN
This is pretty self explanatory. Run because he's on a mission to fuck shit up.
Please note: This is not dating advice. You're fully capable of trusting your gut as well as blocking his number and loving yourself.
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